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It's always safe to me in a public place   12/30/2017

Meet in public where you feel safe where there's lots of people. I feel you should do this the first time you meet somebody until you get to know them. It's just a good practice. That way if anything happens there's lots of people around to help you. You never know some people might just be offended that you don't like now that that they would harm you but they might damage your ...


7 Comments, 61 Views, 33 Votes ,4.71 Score
sam197pulsar 37 M
84  Articles
Chatting in virtual world   12/30/2017

Don't appear overtly eager: Okay, so you've found the guy/girl of your dreams and you are eager to get to know him/her. But wait... don't make it seem like you are already dreaming about marriage. Take it slow. Once you have met the person casually send in your friendship request after a day or two. And make sure that you don't mention that you've been to his/her profile ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 24 Votes ,2.68 Score
Meet in a public place   12/3/2017

You should always meet out at a public place. Somewhere where you feel safe there are people around it's well lit. We are all adults. But you do have to be careful.


11 Comments, 76 Views, 43 Votes ,3.76 Score
Iwannabeused 47 M
5  Articles
How safe is safe?   11/30/2017

Should all parties involved agree to be armed, shock collars? We all have to think about personal safety!


2 Comments, 41 Views, 26 Votes ,2.27 Score
looking to meet someone   11/5/2017

i been searching this web and looking for a woman that is mature and want to try new thing.looking for a mature woman that want to explore and go to the extreme into anything and try new kinky things. that is willing to meet.


0 Comments, 22 Views, 16 Votes ,3.13 Score
nightflyer121 48 M
6  Articles
phone   11/2/2017

is anyone else here nervous about girls who ask for a phone number right away?


1 Comments, 30 Views, 18 Votes ,3.12 Score
first date   10/29/2017

Yes, dating can be a total nightmare when you get hooked up with someone who is rude, obnoxious, or just not your type. <br><br> <br><br> Play it safe when you meet face-to-face


0 Comments, 21 Views, 13 Votes ,2.64 Score
sharknet5 52 M
6  Articles
So my flat or hers?   10/28/2017

Do you think it best to go to one flat or the other on a first date where sex is going to happen - donyoubprefer to be able to just leave or donyoubprefer your own surroundings?


1 Comments, 27 Views, 13 Votes ,2.47 Score
zekkstrom 38 M
6  Articles
Meeting   10/27/2017

Besides the basics of hygiene, decent clothes, and a being friendly there is one basic tip I might offer: <br><br> Meet in a public place first that is well lit and attended for a little while before moving on to a more private venue. <br><br> No matter how horny you might be, and want that late night meetup, be careful. Guy or girl, it doesn't matter, it is best to be ...


3 Comments, 26 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
adambomb5150 45 M
3  Articles
mace   10/25/2017

i got maced once, i guess no does mean no


0 Comments, 14 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
HarddinHou 29 M
12  Articles
fav of all time   10/16/2017

its time for one of those again!!! not another one!! yes!! another one <br><br> whats your fav safety advice of all time dun dun dun


0 Comments, 14 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
sam197pulsar 37 M
84  Articles
Social media   10/11/2017

Don't send a social media 'relationship' request until discussed in person. Do not post flirty drunken pictures of you and your partner on any professional networking site. He/she will be a lot less attractive after getting fired from the job. If you see your love interest signed into instant messenger with a 'busy' status, do not ping him/her to ask, "What's ...


2 Comments, 31 Views, 21 Votes ,2.88 Score
pleasureislan1 57 F
13  Articles
meet in a public place first time   10/6/2017

getting to know each other on IM and exchange photos is a good start. Common interest, and expectations good start. Plan on first meet in public safe place. It can be fun and exciting to meet face to face. Get more time before going to motel , be careful.


11 Comments, 76 Views, 40 Votes ,4.99 Score
untilthedayi 40 M
6  Articles
Condoms?   10/3/2017

What is the best condom and lube combo?


0 Comments, 23 Views, 12 Votes ,1.56 Score
Dating   9/28/2017

Has anyone actually gone out with anyone from this site.


1 Comments, 20 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
jr42468 57 M
24  Articles
becareful   9/25/2017

first and foremost all people involved should be very careful of who they are meeting especially if its a blind date or on website dating please take every precaution


1 Comments, 18 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
firefighterldh 40 M
9  Articles
aim right   9/23/2017

right in the pussy


1 Comments, 12 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
yesyou2015 54 M
3  Articles
Women are not the only ones   9/19/2017

Recently I meet a lady for coffee and everything seemed great. We meet a couple more times with out issues (just coffee) when we decided to go further that's when things changed. She became possessed irrational and down right a stalker. I had to go to the police and court to get a restraining order against her as I became very concerned. <br><br> Has anyone been in this situation ...


4 Comments, 29 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
tallman60314 41 M
16  Articles
Always be on the safe side   9/12/2017

Hi all, <br><br> i am a tall and strong guy but even myself I nowadays look for safe places to meet, at least for the first time. There are so many fake people on here that you never know. <br><br> Just be careful and enjoy!


4 Comments, 24 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
what makes u trust a stranger   8/29/2017

does it matter that a guy is married or not, is that a trust indicator for a girl? how many girls has he slept with, does that matter to u? i know most people find it difficult to trust someone, am shocked at the kind of girls who are ready to meet up for money, either that or they take ur advance and run away(never got into that..just a hunch frankly i cant trust a girl who asks for money at ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
Enginary 33 M
39  Articles
safety   8/23/2017

what are the safety procedures for safe sex??


1 Comments, 23 Views, 15 Votes ,5.27 Score
bigboystwo2 53 M
11  Articles
gotta be gentle   7/24/2017

no means no.


0 Comments, 16 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
mattjoe22 44 M
21  Articles
I am very safe and aware care about my health but...   7/6/2017

I am so very HORNY and want to fuck that I want to hook up ASAP! This site is so very addictive!

I would definitely have safe sex if it is going to happen but some people don't like condoms!

Do you leave the situation or take the chance of getting a disease?

Hashtag - Consequences!!!!


1 Comments, 27 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
justlookingfor08 30 M
1  Article
boring   6/23/2017

Does anyone find this site now impossible to get meeting or is it just meet?


2 Comments, 19 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
Safety Measures   6/6/2017

Safety Measures of Dating is to be taken for everyone because without safety, it consequences will be too effective.


1 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
bpc6464 38 M
4  Articles
Is it part of the thrill   6/3/2017

Does it add to the sex, not knowing all aspects of a sexual partner or partners. At swinger clubs we meet and if the mood and everything is right we engage in sexual relationships. Those were the best encounters of my life. Having normal sex is not the same. I prefer a public scene with random encounters. I did have a partner to share in all of the fun until circumstances, unforeseen, intervened. ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
GuyNextDoor2017 48 M
3  Articles
Childhood friend becomes fwb in adulthood (Last Part)   5/24/2017

The last night I spent with her, was when we finally got to make love. We were both lying naked in bed as she was deep throating my cock, stroking the shaft and sucking on the head. My cock was twitching and pulsating deep down her throat. I was so close to coming, but I wanted to make love to her, so badly, so I stopped her by saying, "I want to put it inside of you."

She stopped ...


2 Comments, 64 Views, 15 Votes ,3.13 Score
blackness04401 53 M
7  Articles
Aware   5/14/2017

To much fake ppl here who advertising meets and greets then they don't follow through free porn here I guess


2 Comments, 20 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
CuriousTallguy78 45 M
0  Articles
be warned of this guy.   5/4/2017

he makes threats if you aren't interested in him. do not exchange with this guy.


1 Comments, 27 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score